What The Heck Am I Here For?

Have you ever thought about Why you're here?  Asked yourself:  'What The Heck Am I Here For?'  Do you even have Clue?

If you asked yourself this question, then it's time for you to get still and quiet and seek your inner voice in order to get some necessary answers.

Like is a School ground and we are all here to learn lessons.  Some good, some not so good; but each lesson makes you stronger, bolder and wiser.  Which in turns equips you to help others, as well as yourself.

You will never hear your inner voice when you are constantly immersed in noise from within and without.

"Be still and Know!"  Seek Silence.  Find Inner-peace.

“To laugh often and love much; to win the respect of intelligent persons and the affection of children; to earn the approbation of honest citizens and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty; to find the best in others; to give of one’s self; to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to have played and laughed with enthusiasm and sung with exultation; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived—this is to have succeeded.” --Bessie Anderson Stanley


“Dare to Be"

When a new day begins, dare to smile gratefully.

When there is darkness, dare to be the first to shine a light.

When there is injustice, dare to be the first to condemn it.

When something seems difficult, dare to do it anyway.

When life seems to beat you down, dare to fight back.

When there seems to be no hope, dare to find some.

When you’re feeling tired, dare to keep going.

When times are tough, dare to be tougher.

When love hurts you, dare to love again.

When someone is hurting, dare to help them heal.

When another is lost, dare to help them find the way.

When a friend falls, dare to be the first to extend a hand.

When you cross paths with another, dare to make them smile.

When you feel great, dare to help someone else feel great too.

When the day has ended, dare to feel as you’ve done your best.

Dare to be the best you can –

At all times, Dare to be!”   --― Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

In all truth and direction, we are here to love and be loved.  To help and be helped in return.  To encourage and carry.  To motivate and direct.  To challenge and test, as well as be tempted and tested.  To seek and to find.  To mentor and be mentored.  To rise as well as fall.  To be lifted and sometimes carried. To be problem solvers and deliver the Good News.  

Success and the Pursuit of Happiness can be achieved, if, you are willing to pay the price.

Remember life is like a box of chocolates.  You never know which one you will choose or be given, but take pleasure in the chocolate because right now your taste buds may not like the taste, but with time you find out that you actually like that chocolate.

So, the next time you think "What The Heck am I Here For?"   It is to Love, to Serve and Be Served!

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Achieving The Win Win

 Win Win is just about making a decision to Win.

It is necessary that you do more than just ask and wish for what you want.

A reliable compass is necessary to guide your path.

As children we learn to ask questions.  Knowing what you actually want will be the difference in receiving and continued want.

So the first step is learning yourself. Knowing what you really want and why you want it.

The second step is having a Winning, Gracious Attitude towards becoming a Winner, along with a desire to help others get their Win Win on as well.

Understanding “what” you want along with the reasons “why” you want it can give you some valuable insight to the thought process which is necessary to achieve the wanted desires.

Asking for riches without knowing what it is that you actually want riches for, will get you no where.  You must be specific in those wants.

Asking for riches may not bring you the happiness and satisfaction you anticipated.

Whereas, asking for riches with the thought of money and the “why” of why you want this money can help you understand what your real desire is and will be instrumental in bringing it into fruition.

If you want money to provide security for your family say so.  Money for family security is different from wanting money because you really only desire the “power” money buys.

These two goals are different so you must be specific as to your Why.  Asking for one doesn’t necessarily mean you don’t get the other, nor does it mean you will receive either, especially if you are not specific in your wants and desires.

Realize that Need is different from Greed.  The Universe may be more willing to give to the need and not even acknowledge the greed.

Perseverance is required to get to the win win.

Along this journey you will inevitably face failure, betrayal, as well as the temptation to quit and give up and just settle for a lifeless dreary existence full of compromise.  At times like these it is imperative to remember your “Why.”

Everything that you are right now is a result of the decisions you have made or the results of decisions that were made for you.  Take charge of your life, decide to become a winner with a desire to be the benefactor of other winners as well.

It is your “Why” which will take you to your Win Win.  Make sure your Why is strong enough to keep you going.

Interested in a growing prosperous and winning team?  Then be sure to check out the Prosperity Team. This team works together to give encouragement, motivation, mindset calls and training; along with some excellent training. Their goal is to create winners and build successful businesses, along with daily training and training systems, as well as, all the support you will ever need.  Team Effort!

"Winning means you're willing to go longer, work harder, and give more than anyone else."--Vince Lombardi

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How To Relieve Stress

In order to Relieve Stress you must first realize that no one encounters sustained success without some type of stress, massive strain and challenge.

Never allow stress to leave you feeling insatiable and needy.  Put the brakes on and restore your balance.

Realize that Stress and Worry are the “assassins” of Rest.

To Relieve Stress You Should:

1. Articulate your “feelings and passions” with others.

By putting stress into words through interaction with others you can begin to thwart the seclusion which is often felt during the later period of burnout. Trading of ideas seems to act as a shock absorber by relieving the anxiety and putting things into the correct perspective.

2. Recognize the need for rest.

Everyone needs breaks from work.  Regardless of where you are in life, you need to realize that you must rest in order to successfully proceed to the next phase.   Time off is utterly essential in invigorating mental attitude and creativity.

3. Distinguish your energy patterns and then plan to work accordingly.

We all have high and low levels of liveliness. Find out when your high energy levels take place and then begin scheduling the stressful functions only during those times.  This will alleviate the wear out and energy loss.

4. Only schedule one energy taxing pursuit at a time.

By scheduling only one demanding situation at a time it will avert work pileup.

When you do schedule more it tends to make you believe that you need to accomplish more, thereby mitigating the stress of’ feeling overworked.

5. Engage daily in physical  exercise and other activities.

It’s imperative to partake in physical exercise because it inspires the body and refreshes the mind.  Our brain requires physical activity in order to regenerate the senses and enhance performance.

Exercise also tends to build physical resistance, as well as, making us feel better about ourselves. When you allow stagnation to set in, your strength and energy are both lowered, which allows you to become more vulnerable to physical and emotional distress.

6. Fracture your projects into smaller increments.

By cutting a large project down into smaller components, it never looks as arduous or overwhelming. This then allows us to embark upon it piece by piece, never realizing how immense it actually is or was until it’s actually completed.

7. Learn to Delegate.

Rather than seize every problem that comes up, we should allow others to share in problem solving and decision making.

8. Just say “No.” 

Never allow yourself to feel duty-bound to take on assignments or do special projects which aren't mandatory because this can sometimes lead to feelings of anger and hostility.

Saying “yes” all the time can lead to feelings of powerlessness; while being able to say “no” gives us a feeling of confidence, influence and satisfaction.  We need to give ourselves the choice of what we want to be concerned in or committed to.  This is the kind of control we need to have in order to become stress free and anxiety free.

Relieve Stress by taking confident charge your time and never allow others to infringe on your own commitment to rest and recovery. Take a “Time Out” when you need it.

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Invest In Yourself!

Invest in yourself and become and better “You.”

Many people seem to settle for mediocrity within their thoughts, actions and attitudes.  It’s time to let go of negative attitudes, mindsets and thought patterns.

Here’s a Video from one of my mentors, Mike Hobbs:

Most people invest in the wrong things…

• They invest their time in TV…
• They invest their money in Liabilities…

Where they should invest their time and money is THEMSELVES…

When you decide to invest in your self (personal development & mentors) that is when your business & life will start to shine!

Becoming a better you is all about taking the time to invest in yourself:

1. Growing, Learning, an Improving.

2. It’s truly about your pressing forward increasing your self esteem and character.

3. Becoming more positive towards yourself.

4. Building better relationships.

5. Forming better work habits.

6. Learning to embrace where you are, while you are on your way to where you’re going.

7. Building your spiritual life.

8. Learning to stay passionate towards life, living and the pursuit of happiness.

“Investing in yourself is the best investment you will ever make.  It will not only improve your life, it will improve the lives of all those around you.”  -  Robin S Sharma

“If you want to be truly successful invest in yourself to get the knowledge you need to find your unique factor. When you find it and focus on it and persevere your success will blossom.”  –Sydney Madwed

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Autoresponder Tips!

Finding the right Autoresponder can be somewhat difficult, as well as, time consuming.

Getting the right autoresponder tips can be very important since there are so many choices on the internet, with each one ranging in price and features.

Before you decide to purchase your own autoresponder, be sure to consider your budget as well as any other tools which you may require. This way, you’ll know what you want and how much you are willing to spend.

Decide on the features you need and want. Next, you’ll need to take into consideration which type is right for you, which brand name you think would work the best. You can answer these questions by comparing the different brands, prices, features, and licensing restrictions.

For a business, autoresponders are a necessity, a Must!  As many of us already know, autoresponders are programs that send out an automated response via email to a specified address.

For  Internet marketing, there are sequential autoresponders. These types of autoresponders are designed to collect different email addresses then send out a variety of pre determined messages through email to subscribers that you have on your list.

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Take Control of Your Life

Take Control of Your Life and Become Empowered.

Quite often in life we begin our days relying on someone else to tell us what we should and shouldn’t do.  But the truth of the matter is that it is only “God”  who can steer us clearing and effectively. It is through Him that we learn to take control of our lives, sometimes through silent meditation of education. These other influences we allow in can only act as “advisers.”

When you choose an Adviser make sure that they have proof of their results.  They live the lifestyle and not just talk the talk, but walk the walk.

It is important that we learn to speak up for ourselves and not let everyone else dump their opinions on us.  We were given minds to think with and intellect with which to seek out solutions for problems.

Take the appropriate steps to take control of your life and define your life.  What do you want to accomplish?  Where do you want to be in the next 30 days? The next 5 years?   Map out your plan and begin your journey.

Realize that your life is too precious to leave in the hands of others.  Every decision you make is actually a matter of you choosing what is right for you.  Get focused..

Focus Activities for taking control of your Life:

1. Write down your goals and review them frequently. Immerse yourself in them.

2. Surround yourself with  pictures, smells, feels, and/or tastes.

3. Think as if it’s on layaway, or it’s in the bank, as you confidently pay the price.

4. Create future references by visualizing you have received them already.

5. Talk about them all the time, and record your own enthusiastic voice to listen to.

6. Control your focus by crowding out all negative, and replacing with all positive.

7. Break down your actions to the ridiculously simple, and be specific.

8. Commit to yourself, your spouse, and everyone you care about.

9. Set your mind to ‘win’, there is no other option to consider.

10. Have faith that this will happen, and then use the peak to peek principle.

Focus your concentration on what’s important.  Take Control of Your Life and build your future, one day at a time. Empowerment begins when you take control of your life!

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How To Improve Self Esteem

“Nothing improves self esteem and self confidence like accomplishment.”–Thomas Carlyle

When you become determined to improve your self esteem, you will be on your way to great achievement.

Never allow a low self esteem to ruin your life.  Understand that the way you think about yourself will determine how you will interact with others.

Examples of low self esteem:

1. Nothing you do ever seems to go right

2. You believe in your mind that most people do not like you.

3. You believe and feel that you are not attractive.

4. Whatever you decide to choose always turns out to be the wrong thing.

5. You are afraid to converse with others for fear that whatever you say will be incorrect.

6. You always feel swallowed up in a whirlpool of frustration and confusion, never going anywhere.

A low self esteem could have begun back in your childhood where some children are made to believe that they are worthless. Their self confidence is eroded and they succumb to the idea that they can never achieve success in anything that they do. They were picked on, laughed at, pushed around, called ugly names, and treated with disdain. Henceforth, they grew up to be full of resentment and a very low self esteem.

If that happened to be your experience, it is time you cut yourself loose from that mindset and endeavor to do some self esteem improvement.

Begin by reading about the lives of successful people and you will soon discover that many of them had such low self esteem that they could not even complete an elementary education.

Low self esteem always makes you a Victim, not an Overcomer!  You constantly give way self defeating thoughts.

Force yourself to stop thinking that the world is closing in on you. Become determined to achieve what you desire. No longer blaming other people for your own misfortunes. Realize that the world is not your problem, “you are your own problem.”

Allow yourself to begin the process of self esteem improvement.  Start thinking the right way and be determined to win, and win you will. Realize that success never comes easily and that is why determination is indeed its counterpart.

Quite often you will actually get to the brink of success and with just a bit of a disappointment or setback, you may want to lose heart and give up.  This is a surefire candidate for low self esteem improvement. Who knows what great things might have been achieved “if only” you would have persevered.

You must seriously decide to either remain in a miserable state of low self esteem, or acquire self esteem improvement and develop a high self esteem with good character and self image.

Read daily, listen to tapes of leaders and on purpose, step out and step up your game plan for success.

Allow yourself to change your thinking and begin to see yourself on top of the world. Make a very special effort to be what you really want to be. Become the very best you that you can be.  Begin to believe in yourself.  You are unique.  You have special abilities.  Seek them out and put them to good use.

Many have decided to override their low self esteem and improve their attitude, whatever it took!   They have since become some of the greatest men and women that ever lived.

Low self esteem has never helped anyone else and it surly will not help you! It can only drive you into depression, anger, grudge, fear and all the other evils that it generates.

Re-program your thinking and begin to control your state of mind.  It is imperative that you believe that you are worth much more than you think, or, you will remain at the foot of the ladder, never making an attempt to climb it.

“Low self-esteem is like driving through life with your hand-break on.”–Maxwell Maltz

Do not waste your life away with feelings of inadequacies. Instead, think of ways to go about self esteem improvement. Success is yours, just reach out and grasp it.

“To establish true self-esteem we must concentrate on our successes and forget about the failures and the negatives in our lives.”—Denis Waitley

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